Anonymous: I srsly don't get why girls want to be choked and slapped and spanked and called names during sex but then they turn around and get angry when they feel like you belittle them or something. Like do u want cuddles and sweetness of rough and dirty, you cant just have both and decide one day you want one and the next u want the other.

naughty-keekster-deactivated201:

Okay, listen up, because what I’m going to say to you is important.

If you’re choking, slapping, spanking etc a girl and calling her names (with consent, obviously) then you better be giving her aftercare, cuddles, reassurance and affection.

If you think that you can’t have both, then you are simply not mature enough to be having sex.

Wanting rougher sex or liking CNC (consensual non consent), degredation, bdsm etc, doesn’t mean that you’re any less of a person , and that you don’t deserve respect.

You can and should have both. Grow up.

-Megan